Well, true I started this blog, but still, I can’t say, that I know a lot on these topics 😦 . Simple, I’m still learning them. I just want to discuss on them with you. Also it’s like, I’ve known almost no one in real life, who face them other than me. So I have to hear to both kinds of you people, normal and different from being so said. I feel this will turn into a great expedition if you decide to join me 😎 .
See, I’ve never had this opportunity of anyone who is normal telling me, ” why we don’t like those, who don’t seem to be normal, or why we want them to behave like us”. Also others, who are considered as different, telling me “Oh! I’m different and I feel like…”, no way! People don’t come out to others that easily. They don’t go around telling others, about their true selves. specially not in non-friendly environments (like mine), and then it’s like almost everywhere is so in one way or another.
However, I have this feeling, I want to understand what’s going on at both sides. I don’t want to take a side, but be in peace with both and accomplish my target. So that’s why I’m hopefully inviting you to join me here, to share our views.
Of course you may say ” oh why bother, we have more things to do than that, without taking freaks ( sorry guys, I thought of using it) into accounts”.
Well think of it, friends, you who identify as normal, are you going to say , “why, it is really good. So we would not be bothered with all their nonsense”.
But still these people exist, don’t you see them, hear them or have you not ever heard of any such? They are living in this same planet, that you live. They eat, drink same food using the same way to put in, the mouth like you. They breath in and breath out same kind of air as you do. and pass out same things as you and by the same outlet. You know what I meant! . I can go on, sure there have to be lot more 😀 . See what I point. Not, that much, differences right, still so many similarities ?
So why you are taking, how people prefer to have sex and their comfortably identified gender, into account as those are the most important facts to identify a fellow human being. Of course foods, drinks, air they could decide if ones going to live or not, but is it so with sex or gender, also. I just, can’t understand this definition.
And there are also other things that differ one from another. Do every one walk, smile, talk, in the same way. Some may be good at art, music, etc, others may float towards technical sides. There are lot more like that. why not take those also into account. They also are major differences right, so why not?
Also as I know sex starts in puberty, say earliest 12 years. Well, OK so! You treat one normal for up to that, then suddenly, he’s not normal? or was he not normal in his past also? Well, do kids have sexual feelings before puberty then? So how could he be not normal before?
What about gender? Some times kids say they want a opposite body,one they have is not the one they should have been given. Well they are kids right, they think we’ll give them what they want, like love or a pet. They don’t know the rules.
Then there are others, who are not kids anymore, realizing it later, and who try to fit in the born gender, and struggling with the wanting to be in the comfortable one, but facing the stubbornness of society.
So why all these happening to some people, Have they wronged some where? Is it a curse? or weaknesses in birth, body or mind. So you have to punish them for having such. Not a kind word or treat for being unlucky than you, is it the rudeness they deserve for being less than you? Does it help them to become healthy as you are or normal. Had it to anyone you know? How and why you think it has or do they say so generally? Are you thinking they are/were not sane to behave normal like you or honest as you are/were with your self. I’m going trust your honesty.
Also, people like me, as we are not the major existence in this world, we will be considered different and may have to face discrimination of majority, it seems. But would You not, like to know why it is so?
So would you like to share your feelings with me? To find out what ” normal thinking” means, don’t you agree we should give it a try as a one. We may find peace in mind, who knows!
Come On! Think with me and tell me something everyone. I still think there’s some humanity still left in this world, to think me as a fellow human by everyone else.
Please! tell me what you think, anything I don’t mind, No! I don’t care for those scholarly researches. Not that they aren’t good, of course they could be great. I don’t mind hearing them. But what I need are your reply s on your thoughts, feelings, agreements or disagreements, how you see these things and your whys.
Yes, I need to see how a general person, in this world, see these things. How you see us in your eyes. The true thinking of present human race.
I don’t consider them as comments, but as your reply s, despite whatever way the blog is going to list them. And I thank in advance for them. (of course I’d have to thank you later, but this seems bit more friendlier to me 🙂 )
So let’s communicate on it, shall we, everyone?
live in peace! and Enjoy life!